YouTube duo Dan Howell and Phil Lester have finally confirmed what many fans have long suspected: they have been in a romantic relationship since 2009. In their recent joint video, the creators opened up about their relationship timeline and revisited one of the most talked-about moments in their shared history — the infamous Valentine’s Day video.
The “Valentine’s video” dates back to 2010, when Phil privately recorded a heartfelt message for Dan on Valentine’s Day. It was never intended for public viewing, but due to a YouTube glitch, the video briefly went public before being deleted. Dan and Phil revealed that the accidental leak nearly forced them to come out before they were ready. Phil described it as a “very personal” message meant only for Dan, while Dan admitted that the incident caused them both a great deal of stress.
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In the new video, Dan and Phil expressed gratitude to fans who respected their privacy at the time by not spreading the video further. They also reflected on how that moment symbolized the challenge of maintaining boundaries while living much of their lives online. Dan said that despite years of speculation from fans, they wanted to share their story in their own words, at the right time, and with honesty.
Their confession began with Dan asking the long-awaited question, “Are Dan and Phil in a relationship?” Phil’s answer was simple but powerful: “Yes.” They explained that their bond developed quickly after meeting in 2009, leading to a natural partnership both on and off camera. However, they were clear that they do not plan to turn their relationship into constant public content. Instead, they intend to continue creating videos that feel authentic to them, while being more open about their lives.
For longtime fans, the Valentine’s video has become a central piece of Dan and Phil’s shared history — once a source of mystery and speculation, now a tender reminder of their early years together. With their relationship finally out in the open, the pair hinted that this new chapter could lead to more personal projects, including a podcast that might explore their journey further. Still, they emphasized that certain aspects of their lives will remain private.
The long-lost Valentine’s video, once an accidental leak, has now become a symbol of how far Dan and Phil have come — from two young YouTubers guarding a secret to a couple confidently sharing their truth with millions.
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